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Flirting can feel like walking a tightrope—too much, and it comes off as forced, too little, and it’s completely missed. The real challenge for most isn’t the desire to connect—it’s figuring out how to do it in a way that feels natural and confident. If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking or feeling stuck when it comes to flirting, you’re not alone. In my latest podcast my wife Audrey, my brother @Stephen Hussey and I break down why flirting feels so tricky for so many people and share practical, actionable tips to help you flirt in a way that feels natural and fun. Tap the link in my bio to watch now!

If someone’s inconsistency has you questioning where you stand, it’s time to see it for what it really is: a turnoff. The right person won’t leave you guessing—they’ll be consistent, clear, and genuinely excited about building something with you. Anything less than that isn’t just confusing . . . it’s a fast track to unhappiness. This insight comes straight from Mindset #5 in my brand-new YouTube video, where I break down 7 powerful mindsets to help you approach dating with more clarity, confidence, and even a little fun. Tap the link in my bio or head to MatthewHussey.com/blog to watch now!

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If someone does something that makes you unsure of them or their intentions, instead of obsessing over whether it’s a red flag or not, use it as an “amber light.” An amber light is an invitation to the kind of honest conversation you might normally be afraid to have. And this conversation will either become a green light (keep going) or a red light (get out) depending on how someone responds. We need to have more challenging conversations in life. That’s how our love life (and every other part of our life) is going to get better.

After a breakup, a lot of us know we should go “no contact,” but then all sorts of sneaky questions start to pop into our heads and everything becomes a “What if . . .”   What if . . .   • It’s their birthday? • They’re going through a hard time? • I run into them? • They reach out? • I find out they really miss me? • “No contact” isn’t possible? • I believe deep down that we’re meant to be together? In today’s new YouTube video, I answer 7 of your top questions about going “no contact” so you know exactly what to do during the breakup.  Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching!

You’ll get no judgment from me whether you get back with your ex or not. You do what’s right for you. But even if you DO get back with someone, make your standards clear so they respect you on the way back in, and never, ever settle for less than you’re worth. P.S. LAST CALL 🚨 My live event is happening tomorrow, so don’t forget to sign up. Go to LoveLifeTraining.com now You’re not alone in this. Love you, friends. xx

This is just a snippet from the 90-minute masterclass I hosted yesterday, “How to Heal From Heartbreak.” The feedback from those who joined has been so beautiful. I’ve had multiple calls this morning from friends and family telling me it instantly made a huge difference in the pain they are going through after their heartbreak. I didn’t want you to miss the chance to watch this yourself before it goes away, and to make this the start of your healing journey. Set aside some time to watch it before the recording expires this Friday at midnight PT. Go to LoveLifeReplay.com

You will find the right person sooner if you form the habit of saying “no” to the wrong people more quickly. Save this video as a reminder the next time you need it, and drop a ❤️ if you agree! P.S. If you’re ready to change your mindset to build the life that you want, go to MHRetreat.com for all details for my Weekend Retreat happening this October. Right now, I have a special Early Bird price that’s only available until March 28, so don’t wait!

Replying to @Bonnie Want to join my free masterclass next tuesday on healing from heartbreak? Sign up at www.LoveLifeTraining.com (takes 10 seconds!)

If you’re asking yourself, “Can I trust this person?”this video will help Thank you, @Lisa Bilyeu, for having me on your podcast, #womenofimpact. I always love our conversations. ❤️

If you’re experiencing heartbreak right now, know that you’re not alone. On Tuesday, February 25, I’m hosting a live masterclass that you can attend for free, where I’ll share practical strategies so you can start to feel better. Go to LoveLifeTraining.com (link in bio) to secure your spot on the event for free.

SAVE this video for the next time you find yourself doubting your own worth after a breakup. ❤️ If you’re ready to finally heal your heartbreak, move on, and create better opportunities in your love life, drop the word “HEAL” in the comments or head to LoveLifeTraining.com to sign up for my upcoming training next week, “How to Heal From Heartbreak.”

You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!”  But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In my new YouTube video, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship, and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again.  Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/Blog to start watching!

If you’re looking for ideas on how to navigate your own texting situations, I’ve got you covered . . . Go to AskMH.com to accessa tool I created specifically to help with this. You can try it out and get 3 texts or voice responses right now, then it's only $7 for the first month after that. ❤️

Ever had that sinking feeling that something in your relationship isn’t quite right—but you push it aside because everything seems too good to be true? We’ve all been there. And no film captures this better than Anora, this year’s Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards. If you’ve ever rushed into commitment, been swept away by grand gestures, or felt like you’re in a one-sided relationship, then you need to watch today’s video. I break down the 5 biggest red flags that signal your relationship could be headed for disaster—and how to spot them before it’s too late. Tap the link in my bio or head over to MatthewHussey.com/blog to start watching.

Send this to someone who needs to hear it. ❤️ And if you’re struggling after a difficult breakup, you can watch the full video on my YouTube channel, where I share a tool that will help you find the peace and clarity you need to move on for good (link in my bio).

What are your non-negotiable qualities in a partner? Tell me in the comments! 👇 Thank you, @Kristin Cavallari, for the beautiful conversation. ❤️

Replying to @Christine Dawn you’ve got time! Ask me a question and get my instant answer here: www.AskMH.com

Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on.  Either way, this is the first aid you need right now. And if you want help on a deeper level to heal from the heartbreak you're feeling, I have a free training happening next week that will help. Head to LoveLifeTraining.com now and I'll DM you with the information to secure your spot on the live training next week. I'm here for you.

Do you agree? Let me know in the comments. 👇 P.S. If you haven’t watched my full conversation with @lewishowes the link in my bio or head to my YouTube channel to check it out!